There are things you don’t have. Why spend your entire life in denial of that, or playing religious cover ups? There would always be what you don’t have. Everything you don’t have is not the end of the world, and it doesn’t have to be the end of the story.
You do not have to live life as a victim of what you don’t have. Even at your weakest and most needy moment, you can trigger the advantage of what you do have.